If I may formulate it so (non-native english): I think, it is admirable that you, TishaBuv, get yourself the help that you require at this time.

In my particular case, help was never accepted by myself ... until a dear friend gave it to me. So I am in the hospital, presently - finally no longer willing to go AMA but waiting, waiting for therapy to start (welcome to the queue ...).

I really hope, TishaBuv, that the therapist holds the light that the certificates attest him (i.e. is competent) - and I do mean more than 'just' a candle. Pretty sure, your dear hubby will come around.

Regarding the wall ornament: I haven't forgotten - and I am pretty sure how it will be made. Stay tuned ...


Kindest,
rewin