I'm actually kinda going through something similar with my brother in law and sister. They want to travel to the old state in a bitterly cold blizzard on Friday. I guess to get Christmas presents. I don't know. It will be way too dangerous to even go to the grocery store let alone to another state. My mom is telling them to rethink their plans and they are just like "well... we'll see." My brother in law is just so stubborn. Their lives are more important then Christmas gifts though. My mom doesn't want to be too nagging or arugmentative because my sister and brother in law get yelled at a ton by his sort of abusive folks.