The following is from a website called HealthyPlace.com. What it says is true.
"Women feel intimacy and closeness when they talk, touch, and share their thoughts and feelings with a loved one. They are usually more interested in intimacy than in sex of and for itself."
What I'd add to the above is what women want is to know is they're appreciated, respected, and cherished.
Also, unlike what you might find in popular culture such as TV or movies, I don't personally know any woman who spends time considering anatomical proportions- it's just not a thing very many women waste time thinking about. I'm old so I've gossiped with a lot of different types of women and I don't recall the topic mentioned more than a couple of times, and that was during my much younger years.