Thank you so much for your kind words.
I completely agree when you say many things are said in the heat of the moment. That was my sincere hope as well for the days that followed. I expected an apology, which never came.
I expected a retraction of the statements, at least "I didn't mean what I said" but that never came either.
And the worst part was that the same things were repeated to our friends & family when they tried to speak to him... even a couple of weeks later.