So, it seems I don't have empathy anymore but after Ben complaining like every day for like the past 3 years I just get irritated when people complain about there problems I never used to be like this. I used to be able to empathize very well but now I just get pissed off if a guy complains to me and I just lose patience and just want to push them away and not talk to them why is this happening? That person truly wore me down I tried to help them all they did was complain and then I just stopped talking to them a year ago. Now I just lose patience with people.