Yes @AliceKate, all very good ideas and observations etc of trying to describe something that is beyond mere words really. But we must try, yes. Me, I've never really needed convincing because I just look through these eyes which aren't my own, life made them (I could insert the dreaded 'g' word here but that might make ppl think of a big bearded white man sitting on a cloud telling ppl what to do and no one likes that) at a world which is very beautiful and very heartbreaking too. In death I think we're all shown the truth but no one comes back to share that truth. Well, actually sometimes they do.