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Old Dec 28, 2022, 07:02 AM
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Originally Posted by Marie123 View Post
It isn't that he doesn't think much of you (he doesn't have the ability to like anyone), it is because he dislikes/hates himself. That is called projection. He projects onto others what he really thinks about himself. He is a never ending huge hole of unending wants and needs and NO ONE can fulfil that. It is like trying to communicate with a Q-tip, LOL....he doesn't care what you think. When you "get" his "secret" you will be free.
Thank you @Marie123. I do get his secret so I feel far more free these days of him than ever before. Yes, he hates himself and I do not hate myself. There's a big difference between us with that alone. He has a mental illness as well - and I do not. I see him for what and who he truly is.

And yesterday, I am convinced that he saw my text messages hours beforehand but was choosing deliberately to not reply. It was obvious because only after I threatened him, did he reply. And his reply came immediately after my threat. He clearly had seen all my messages before that and was not replying on purpose. More control and passive aggressive behavior.
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