JimWriter, I am sorry you are struggling with this. You are doing the right thing--taking care of yourself and getting support. My mom and I both struggle with agoraphobia. We are a little different--we also want to be alone. For me, I feel the safest when I am alone in my kitchen. Take heart, it can get better. I have come a long way in the last few years, especially the last year. Therapy and meds have helped a great deal. Before, I had periods where I found it difficult to go to the mailbox and would have to miss work. Now, I am going to work on a regular basis and even going to some social events. It is still stressful to be out in the world, but I am handling the stress fairly well. I tell you this because I want you to know it can get better. It is a tough battle...I feel for you and I hope things improve. Keep reaching out and sharing. We are here to listen...