Let us know how your trip goes. It’s commendable you are involved with your elderly folks in whatever way is reasonable and possible. You mentioned that you are the only one helping. Sadly too many people don’t call, don’t visit and don’t help with aging family yet they are first in line to criticize how others help their parents. It’s easy to leisurely criticize others from the comfort of one’s couch. Sadly those are also people who are first in line demanding every penny they can get from their parents while they are alive and after death. Shameful.
Is your husband going with you?