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Originally Posted by poshgirl
TishaBuv, thanks for the suggestion. I've had a brief look at Dr R's site, a lot makes sense.
I also feel I've hijacked this thread, so apologies!
Whatever the dynamics, there's a lot of similarity. Behaviours that are present at an early stage or those that manifest themselves later in life. In my case, my mother has always had a nasty streak....
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Some people with nasty streak mellow down with age but some actually get worse and some stay the same their whole life.
And some people are subtle in their nastiness dishing insults in a subtle passive/aggressive way while pretending to be all meek and weak. Those are in fact the worst because you can’t really confront them, “what do you mean I did all that, I am sitting here all little moping in the corner, I mean no harm ”. They don’t care how their subtle nastiness affects others. Everything is about them so why’d they care how they make others feel. The world evolves around them and how THEY feel
Not all abusers loud and in your face, some are subtle and sneaky