Thanks. And y'know I just realized why I reacted like I did... because it was about my appearance (although a little disguised perhaps) and it brought to mind that comment he made about my weight when we were out to dinner with friends a couple years ago. I can't remember the exact thing he said back then anymore but I do recall that it was really hurtful and this stuff this morning brought back those same feelings. He's been in bed all day watching football and basketball trying to get over his cold so at least I haven't had to deal with him.