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Old Dec 31, 2022, 06:51 AM
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Originally Posted by Marie123 View Post
It seems as if you are "putting the cart before the horse" In other words (and this is just a guess/perception) that you are looking for a decent man to assuage the pain of the divorce., but you need to go through the grieving process (however long it takes) before you are ready to begin another relationship.
Well, I wasn't looking for a relationship right now. I got on the site because I thought I would explore and just see what's out there. And, perhaps meet someone for casual romance or friendship. But so far, it's been a negative experience. Maybe it's a sign for me to not date at all, even just casually.

Also, I feel I am well healed at this stage. Yes, there's still a tiny bit of grief, but I've been grieving for 3 months already and I feel I am basically done.
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