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Originally Posted by Marie123
It seems as if you are "putting the cart before the horse" In other words (and this is just a guess/perception) that you are looking for a decent man to assuage the pain of the divorce., but you need to go through the grieving process (however long it takes) before you are ready to begin another relationship.
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Well, I wasn't looking for a relationship right now. I got on the site because I thought I would explore and just see what's out there. And, perhaps meet someone for casual romance or friendship. But so far, it's been a negative experience. Maybe it's a sign for me to not date at all, even just casually.
Also, I feel I am well healed at this stage. Yes, there's still a tiny bit of grief, but I've been grieving for 3 months already and I feel I am basically done.