3 months isn’t long enough. I don’t think the issue is online. Heck the guy you knew 30 years ago kept insulting you and you invited him over. And he’s not from a dating site. Heck your husband wasn’t from online! It seems no matter where you meet them

When I wasn’t ready for dating I kept being asked out by jerks and meeting creeps in real life! The therapist I saw said a minimum a year of no men. And she was right.

“No men “ doesn’t mean sitting home alone if you want company. You could seek friendships and companionships and hobby groups. Don’t look for friendships on dating sites. Look for groups on meetup or take a class in a community center. Not men. You keep saying you just want a man for hanging out not serious relationships but why must these people be men?

Stay away from men for some time. Longer than few months. And look for a man not because and when you are lonely but because you are ready for a relationship snd know exactly what kind of man you want.

We all wish you the best on your journey but also worried that it’s yet another disaster to happen should you continue looking for men now. Even if just casual. In fact that’s even worse. Looking for casual will be a disaster

Enjoy your life without men for now