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Originally Posted by Have Hope
He told me yesterday that he signed the divorce paperwork. Then he told me I am irreplaceable and that it's very difficult living without me. Which tells me that he IS likely trying to replace me with someone and quickly. I've heard countless stories of narcs moving on really fast to another person, for more supply. So I am sure he is on dating sites or what have you. I still felt a tiny tiny twinge of like - oh, so you're looking for someone. But ultimately, it's OK. I don't actually mind that much if he's dating or seeking companionship. I know what it's about and I know it's about gaining supply. And I know he will treat the next person the same exact way. He'll be charming in the beginning and will love bomb them like crazy, then slowly over time his facade will drop and his mask will fall off. Then he will reveal his true self - once the woman has already committed to him. I know the drill.
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Yes, all the experts say to not date for a year, especially recovering from a narcissistic abuse relationship. They say to become indifferent to them. Your thinking about what he is doing now is the opposite of indifferent.