Sandman, I left my emotionally unavailable husband of 28 years. It will be one year and 4 months out on January 7. That is when the divorce was final. I don’t know how to move on even though I am the one that left. I didn’t leave him because I didn’t love him, I left because he was ignoring me and pushing me away for years. I was dying of loneliness. He has started dating and having a wonderful time with his new woman. It is hurting me to the bone because he ignored me and didn’t want to have any fun with me. I am 52 and completely scared, lonely, confused, depressed, and hopeless. I’m sorry I am no help except to say you are not alone.