Wanting a divorce doesn’t always mean there is another person involved. Often it’s more about a person’s unhappiness with where they are in life and the stress of keeping up with the responsibilities of whatever their lifestyle requires.
There has been a tremendous amount of stress on many due to the impact Covid had on our entire economy and ability to interact socially.
It may not just be you personally but instead the overall stress and unhappiness your husband has been experiencing that has been building up in him personally. Often not wanting to talk comes from not even knowing how to talk about what he is experiencing.
Inflation has been horrible! All essentials are more expensive and some states are worse than others in terms of cost of living and taxes. That’s a lot of stress and it may have been affecting his ability to earn enough income to keep up.
If you have not been working and have been a dependent you are out of how stressful things have become. So how can he talk to you about it?