I'm so sorry your T is treating you so badly. I know it must hurt a lot, especially when you've been working together for over 5 years.

Years ago I had a long term T whom I thought I had a good relationship with. Then one week, out of the blue, she ended our sessions, by text. I had no proper closure, and was left totally adrift and unsupported, whilst feeling like I'd done something wrong. So different situation, but I totally get how betrayed and devastated you may feel.

If you have the opportunity to talk it through with him, I'd think that is probably the best option. But it sounds as though he for whatever reason, isn't prepared to own his own stuff. So you may need to make the hard decision yourself as to whether it's worth the potential harm to you, to continue working with him.

I hope you can get this figured out for your own peace of mind.

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