Thanks, LT. I find it almost as relaxing as crocheting.

I had an interesting conversation with L in my head last night (I do that a lot) I told her I felt like I owed her an apology for the whole my previous behaviors making her feel taken advantage of thing. And in my head I heard her say "You don't owe me anything, Art. But maybe you should think more about what you owe yourself."

Indeed.