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Old Jan 04, 2023, 06:54 PM
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Originally Posted by SlumberKitty View Post
Good question, Lemon,

I think fear of conflict. Plus I think part of it is just her. How she is in her ordinary non-T life. I don't think me telling her would make a difference. So I just try to accept her, flakiness and all.

HUGS Kit
You’re starting from the wrong premise. Your premise is “she won’t change so I just need to deal with it.”

The actual premise is “I need a reliable therapist. She isn’t it. I need to find a better one.”

You didn’t take vows to this woman or swear an oath of loyalty.

In college I was devastated by a breakup. A friend gave me the Dr. Seuss book “One fish two fish red fish blue fish” to remind me there were more fish in the sea.

Same with therapists.
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