Hey, look at the bright side! You're only 36. I am 52, facing the dating scene again with a divorce on the horizon. Yes, we have to weed through all the frogs, which does suck. Maybe you're on the wrong sites... maybe try different avenues for meeting singles? Activity and interest groups - in-person groups? That's what I plan on doing rather than trying dating sites. I hate those. Too easy to be passed up for someone better looking.