Day 3 of no smoking! I am doing fine with it. I do have a very bad cold which contributes to not wanting to smoke, but I am happy about quitting. And soon, I will add exercise, once I get over my cold and once I can afford the fees.

So, I do need some advice....

My husband looks to me as someone to lean on in his time of need. Like, yesterday when he went to the emergency room for heart palpitations, he contacted me, crying about it.

I have signed the divorce papers and so has he. The lawyer is filing for divorce today sometime, and I will receive a confirmation that we have filed sometime in the next week.

There is now zero reason for my husband and I to be in touch.

And I want it to be that way - I do not want to be the person he goes to every time he has an issue. How do I say this to him? Or do I not say anything and just stop replying? Or block him again? What is the best approach? I showed him some amount of compassion yesterday when he went to the emergency room. But I do not want this to continue.