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Old Jan 06, 2023, 02:13 PM
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Originally Posted by Molinit View Post
Lots unclear here and frankly, he didn't "take your name off" but just flat-out closed the account, which I believe he can do. He then reopened a new account under his name.

You're in a tough situation, but I would suggest you calling a domestic abuse hotline in your area because there's definitely controlling behavior and limiting your access to funds. They may also be able to get you an attorney to get a divorce, but I don't know that a divorce will put you in a better position because then you'll be unmarried with no funds at all.

Have you applied for disability and got turned down in the past? How long has it been since you last had a job?
The account was blocked, not closed. He transferred the money to a new account. I haven’t applied for disability yet but will.

I haven’t worked in about two years I think. I can’t keep a job because employers expect me to learn everything in a few days & fire me when I can’t hit the ground running even for things I’ve never done before. I gave up & stopped looking.

I’m limited to working retail as I have almost no computer skills. That’s hard on someone like me who has physical & mental disabilities.