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We became his parents rather than a couple and lost ourselves for a while. I'm glad that you're trying to work it out. My own experience makes me believe that (with the exception of abuse) people give up too easily. Relationships are hard work and they're not always fun. I wish you both luck.

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Becoming just parents is one of our biggest concerns. We didn't even know ourselves. We both grew up really fast. She was a stay at home mom with our son from day one. I would work all day and then be dead. She would want to talk and be US... I was to tired. I have changed from these ways but at the same time she broke and no longer wanted it to be that way. But now she bartends at night. So as soon as i get off work she'll be going to work. This is very hard just in the simple case of doing everything together. To nothing. This weekend she is taking off. We are going to spend that day with our son. I'm going to play it slow and not push. This is the only thing i know to do. Right now she just wants to be friends. Yeah its hard. But its the only thing I've got. Once again thanks for the input from all.