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Originally Posted by ArtieTheSequal
Well blow me down, h actually pulled up his big boy pants and we ended up having a really nice visit with son and his gf. We even went out to dinner with them, just got home. I'm just so absolutely proud of him!! He's grown into such a good man. I was proud of myself for not crying when we said goodbye.
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Do you ever tell him these things? When you're proud of him? That you think he's a good man?
I have found that praising my H when he does good goes further then nagging him when he acts up. They need that praising and uplifting as much as we do. Everyone does. And sometimes we forget to say it. I know I've been trying to show my appreciation more from H, and because of it, H is doing more to get my praise. I also have found that L and even T need it too.