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Originally Posted by ScarletPimpernel
Do you ever tell him these things? When you're proud of him? That you think he's a good man?
I have found that praising my H when he does good goes further then nagging him when he acts up. They need that praising and uplifting as much as we do. Everyone does. And sometimes we forget to say it. I know I've been trying to show my appreciation more from H, and because of it, H is doing more to get my praise. I also have found that L and even T need it too.
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I tell my son that all the time, yes.... that's who i was talking about being proud of.
I guess I should take a moment to let H know I appreciate that he did come out and socialize. I've been so aggravated with him lately, I guess because I'm still not over the comments he made recently about my weight. I should just let it go and move on. Thanks Scarlet for the reminder.