Regarding the xanax...Part of my job requires me to testify in court and I get EXTREMELY anxious. I have taken one pill and it helped take the edge off and I still felt clear headed, however, my coworker told me one xanax puts her to sleep so I agree with Earthmama about maybe waiting until you know what your reaction may be.
I wish you all the best tomorrow. And it sure looks like a lot of people rooting for you!