That is so true. I thought it was just me and my disfunctional family who were that way. It's often not even that hard to fix things, but often I was told it couldn't be done when I lived in the house wand wanted it fixed. But then it got done when preparing to sell the house. Why is it worth doing for someone else, and not for us?

And why live a life that is not in order, and wait until the end to put things right? That does seem like a very hard road to travel.