I disagree with female Ts being inconsistent. Both T and L and a past therapist, were all very consistent and female. It has nothing to do with gender!

Now ex-T was very inconsistent. We had good sessions and then a lot of bad sessions. I came home crying more times than not, and it wasn't because of my own personal issues. It was issues with her. She made me believe that it was my fault for the ruptures. Looking back, yeah I played a role, but it was her inconsistencies (among other things) that triggered and exasperated the ruptures. I wish I could have seen it then.