She just had surgery and is on the mend, so perhaps I need to cut her some slack. She wanted me to run through a red light today just so we could get to her doctor's appointment on time. This didn't seem right to me, and she shouldn't have yelled at me for not wanting to do that. Usually her and I have a pretty good relationship, but other times, NO. We've been married for over 25 years, and I think that generally speaking, those have been good years. We've been through a lot together.