Yeah, I wish my T would just tell me at the beginning of a session...like 'oh xyz has happened so I'm feeling a bit blergh today' and that would make all the difference. But they don't do they, it's like some sick game where they want to "see how you react" and use it as part of their processes. So backwards, males and females have been the same with me.

Honestly, you'd think some therapists had never been to therapy.