Speaking of extremes...today my T seemed very warm and empathetic, even though we were talking about a difficult topic--how things were in therapy during the virtual portion of the pandemic, as opposed to now. I could have seen him be shaming about some stuff I brought up, but he wasn't.

What's sort of funny is that in talking at one point about how sometimes he seems very supportive and other times pushing me, he said he could imagine how it would feel rather erratic to me. Had he been reading this thread???