Thank you. That's exactly where I am... very uncertain, which is why I feel that traveling and giving myself that space will let me make up my mind... but my near-term priorities are 1) a healthy pregnancy and 2) staying until the child is at least 4mths, to let my partner (and myself) adjust. I wouldn't like to settle down in a family without being 100% all in... my parents stayed together for me, until I grew up... It was a struggle, which makes me think that co-parenting might be healthier in the long-run