Ziggy
My mom had the same thing. Your right its very hard to watch. Please if you can get as much help as you can............
AS far as your mom going to church....she may just not be well enough to go
With my mom just getting to Drs was hard....
It takes so much energy and oxygen for them to move...it is sometimes easyer for them just to say home
Plus if she is forgetting things...she maybe staying home to cover it........
Talk to her Dr. as there is help out there.
DO what you need to do to take care of yourself too
Its a very hard thing to watch.........
Muffy