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Originally Posted by Open Eyes
I believe in honesty, however, it’s important that a woman not be stressed during her pregnancy. I think you going off while she is pregnant is a bad idea. I think it’s best for the baby that she be comfortable and safe. They are learning stress hormones are not good for a developing baby.
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Yes, I'm big into honesty myself... always have been my whole life, which is why this situation is very difficult. I decided to stay during the whole pregnancy, and the first 6 months after... so she will have a safe and comfortable pregnancy and will get time to adjust to being a mother (and myself to being a father). The problem is that I'm finding it hard to commit for 6mth+ after birth, as effectively, I feel like I'll be lying to myself.