((((((((((((Crazy1))))))))))))) That's hard. Will you be able to have contact with your boss after she leaves or is she leaving the area? Perhaps you guys can schedule a lunch sometime in the near future.
That's great that you can feel, though I can imagine how scary that must be at times. It sounds like you are going through a heap of stuff all at once. Emotions can be so overwhelming.
What are your plans for summer? Perhaps you and your children can plan some fun things to do to help get through.