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Emptyglass, thanks for getting in on this. Indeed, you describe what looks like an endless loop of tail chasing which all of us must know. What about some new terms to describe it to yourself? Can you differentiate between the act of loving found inside your self and the longing for reciprocity? I don't find them to be the same. It's a little like adjusting the contrast on your tv, trying different things to see more clearly.

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Professor Sqrlb8: My hand is up. Would you mind rephrasing your explanation? You lost me.