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Originally Posted by unaluna
Artie, i bet they were all admiring your restraint AND your ability to be present in the moment. You dont need to apologize for his bad behavior.
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Thanks Una. I would be apologizing for me slamming the door mostly - I didn't mean for that to happen.
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Originally Posted by ScarletPimpernel
I don't think you need to apologize, Artie. I'm sure they didn't take it personally, and could probably tell what was going on. You were setting a boundary and removed yourself from the situation. You did it in the best way you could in that moment. Don't be too hard on yourself. You're dealing with a lot.
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Thanks Scarlet. I feel like I'm only now learning how to set boundaries and it's messy I guess when you're learning. I set another one recently I think this is one anyway - after he made the comment about my weight - we used to each have a weight chart hanging on the bathroom wall that we recorded our weight on, I took mine down shortly after he made the comment, so now he won't know anymore.