Last night 2 friends went out with me to dinner. The waiter said this after we ordered a few things to share: You eat to much. Myself & one other friends are overweight.

Because of that they barely ate anything. We’re all recovering bullimics & anorexics. I wanted to speak up but they’re wimpy tbh & told me ‘to be nice’. They were upset about what he said. Especially my heavy set friend. She’s now never going back there.

I don’t understand how speaking up is making a ‘scene’. What would you have done if you were me?

I did call the manager today & since we can’t remember who he was exactly, she needs to look into things. I’ll supposedly get a call back later with an apology from that guy.

I suspect it’s the guy I spoke to earlier as he didn’t ask to take my number & he wanted to see what everything was about. I didn’t say anything just in case he wanted to twist things around.

I’m disappointed in them both as they’ve been bullied a lot & yet they will rarely defend themselves. Why? They’re both adult women between 38-55.