That is right, there is a risk now of allowing him back into my life. There is no way I will allow any semblance of a sexual relationship again, but I do not know what to do about him wanting to be in my life non-sexually. He likes every single Facebook post of mine, sends me messages such as "nice snaps" (after I posted pictures from my hike), which is something he used to do before. So he behaves as if not much had changed. I do not know what exactly I should do. I think the most important part for me now is not to feel guilty and then I will be OK whichever way he behaves.