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Originally Posted by divine1966
I’d file a written complaint. Email. So there’s a record of it. Describe what happened. Then follow up to find out if course of action was taken. He should never be allowed to speak like that
I’d not judge your friends for not wanting to argue in a restaurant. it’s not comfortable to start arguing. Maybe they should’ve but it’s not easy. You are in a bad marriage yet you don’t speak up and don’t leave and don’t stand up for yourself. You described some other bad situations with people and again you’d not speak up and don’t stand up for yourself
Your friends weren’t comfortable to argue with a waiter. Not everyone can stand up for themselves. You don’t.
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I resolved the situation & my friends applauded me for it. I understand what you’re doing saying. My situation is different.
I DO speak up. I can only do so much. Beleive me, I have raised hell & have eliminated some bad behavior from ny husband. And I banned his rude parents from the house years ago as well as my rude patents recently.
One thing he won’t budge much on finances. I did what I could. Supposedly he’ll add my name back to the account in a week or two after we get back from a trip.l for his birthday.
It’s not like I can just get up & leave. Whete would I sleep? How can I get money to eat? It’s not that easy as you think when you don’t have any savings or any money. If I did, then things would be a lot easier.
Womens shelters are always full & I doubt that my friends will let me stay at their place for long. My parents are crazy. I’d never move back there. They banned me from the house anyways because of my psycho sister who attacked me years ago.
Please don’t assume things next time.