I finally just stopped replying to him. I cannot listen to his excuses and bs reasoning and longer. And it IS all bs. He just makes up stuff to explain away his bad behaviors and poor treatment of me. Oh, I didn't realize, he says, or I couldn't receive criticism at the time, or my coping skills were lacking because of my mom's failing health. Whatever the case may be, I have zero trust that he can be the loving, supportive and faithful husband I want & need - and consistently. If his coping skills are lacking now when there's a family crisis, then he won't be able to cope in the future either. And if he cannot hear or receive my feedback, more than once now, then that's a huge problem. I have zero faith in him and zero trust at this point.