It is not a contest. I think perhaps people who say that their "issues" are not as bad as others are maybe trying to not compete as opposed to competing. They are trying to be kind.

The only competition I feel is within. No other one matters. Phoenix30 made a very good point. It is difficult when starting here. We do not want to step on toes. Mortimer in my opinion you have the answer.

We must remember that pain is relevent to the person and that person's experiences. What causes me pain may not cause anybody else pain.