So he ended up at the filled-to-capacity Starbucks that I was at today. I mentioned how he’s been buying a lot of expensive stuff lately after he’d just told me that he’s going to an expensive couch store after he leaves Starbucks. His response? One hundred and twenty percent defensiveness and lashing out at me saying, of course, that I know nothing about his finances. I pointed out that I know that he cries that he can’t afford a drink at Starbucks fairly often. This got him really riled up saying that his finances are none of my business and what type of relationship did I think we have, etc etc! And then he said is it just that I WANT HIM TO BUY ME SOMETHING AND OF COURSE I said it isn’t. (Leaving the caps . Didn’t mean for them to go past “me”.). Anyway he was entirely too defensive and angry. He asked “Do you treat all your other friends this way?” Why yes! Yes I do and none of them go off the rails.