Yes ((RD)) I can hear that. You do need a live caring person you can talk to. It’s nice that this woman complimented you because your wife has been picking you apart, even making up things you never did. You do need an adult you can talk to.
I am not criticizing you for wanting that or needing that. My only warning is this be careful if this nice woman is a work college. You can meet her for dinner to socialize.