MaryAlice,

If you could get a referrel from your T - that would be great.
You will feel better that the new T was selected just for you.
Somehow, that could be a comfort.

As far as the job situation, perhaps a plan A and plan B resume is in order.
A has all experience for a job you qualify for. B has half of the qualifications so you do not over qualify right now because you need to take something to preserve your familys' need. It is temporary - only temporary - if you take something you are over qualified for, and you can still look for a better job - the plan A - while you at least have something coming into your household.

See? If you have to, take the lesser temporarily. But do not stay there. Use it to get to where you need to go as a stepping stone to the next stepping stone, to cross over the stream.

Same with the T's, although I know there is love and trust and attachment involved, you can do that again with another. You are capable. That is the promising thing about therapy. To make us feel capable and functional as we move onto each new stepping stone as we cross the stream -

love and peace,
night