It does seem like you are getting a second chance to make a different choice. Perhaps you are being given a chance to grow and be stronger.

I think this is the universe telling you to create the life you really want for yourself as if you've been trapped in the job, relationships and home that no longer fit you.

Weren't you thinking about moving out of state? Maybe your job search is supposed to lead you to a new state, new job, new home, new people, etc.