Yep,there can be many sides to a story or to a person.My abusers have two facets. They are street angels and house devils.There is no way I can make people believe what had happened in the confinement of those walls.They have maintained their nice and kind image to the outsiders. If you were to meet them today as a stranger, you would call me a liar for saying they abused me.So I am shushed into silence about the abuse.I still suffer in silence. Thank you for validating me,Armour plate. And so sorry about what you are going through. Hugs.