It’s tough but universe didn’t set it up so you can go back to your husband. It’s not the lesson G-d would want people to learn. Go to exes when things go rough? I don’t think so

I am sure your husband wants to file jointly because he wants you to do his taxes. No one files jointly after filing for divorce (how dumb is that?). If you don’t do his taxes he’d have to go to HR block, which will cost him money. Dude is so sneaky

I’d not be telling him anything about yourself. You filed for divorce. End of story. You losing your job isn’t his business. Being vulnerable with him just opens the gates for manipulation.

Job loss and divorce are very hard. But it will get better and it could be always much worse. Stay strong. Could you rely on your family for moral support? Relying on your husband for moral support while going through divorce with him is not a good plan