I agree with this, Kit, and am also sending hugs.

She shouldn't have offered to call and then not done it. (It makes me think of when ex-MC would let me know he'd call me, but give no sense of when, and sometimes it was 2 days later at a really random time. So I'd be carrying my phone with me wherever I went (like, in the bathroom--I don't usually take it there!) just in case.)

I hope you actually meet tonight and that she's helpful.