I think if I cared about the friendship I might arrange a quiet chat when things had cooled down, and I’d tell her how I felt when she spoke to me that way. I’d give her space to reply and take it from there. If she’s someone who can self reflect and have an open honest discussion this might help.

However if I didn’t care about the friendship or I’d previously spoken with her about it and she’d ignored that then I’d consider letting the friendship go.

Good luck!